Most times, the past relationships are so easy to complain about. We seem to know EXACTLY what we didn't like about that person. They were too this...they were too that. Why do I always attract this kind of relationships or dating experiences? Or maybe you don't attract ANYONE and can't understand why. It's probably because you keep putting out in the universe that you don't think that you can attract anyone.
In order too attract a man or to attract a woman using the laws of attraction, it's important to realize WHY you attract the mates that you do. The vibes you're putting out in the universe is what the Laws of Attraction are going to bring back to you!
Whatever you put your attention on is what you're going to attract. So, if you are always putting your attention on how the mates you choose aren't worth @#%&, then you're going to keep attracting mates that aren't worth @#%&. Believe me, I know this is easier said than done. Like anything else, this takes practice.
To manifest your ideal mate, use the bad experiences you had to get some clarity about the things you want in a mate. Write down all the bad attributes of that person, then right beside it, write down the opposite attribute. Maybe they were a liar, for example. Beside that, write down that you want someone who is honest. Make sure that you write something positive for all the bad attributes you can think of.
Now, you have a positive list to concentrate on. You have clarity. You know exactly what you want and you can concentrate on the positive. The more keep your attention on these positive traits, the more likely these traits are going to manifest themselves in your next date or relationship. With practice, your vibes will change and the Law of Attraction will bring to you exactly what you want!
by Nailah Joynerv
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