What Does It Mean To "See Through Your Heart" and Why Is It Important To Practice Doing So Everyday?

I have been using this statement a lot lately, especially with my kids. "See through your heart." Thanks to Summer McStravik, author of Creative Flowdreaming: Manifesting Your Dreams in the Life You've Already Got, for inspiring the analogy I am going to use to explain this idea:
God gave us the ability to instantly know to remove our hand if we touch a hot plate. It is wired in us. That same gift was given to us by how we feel when we experience something undesirable. If it doesn't feel good what do we do to feel better? It is my opinion that there is always an opportunity to find what feels good if you choose to look for it.
My son came home this week telling me about a little boy in school and his not-so-positive behavior toward another little boy. I explained that talking about this boy's actions was like "highlighting" the little boy's negative behavior and therefore adding energy to what this boy said and therefore unintentionally attracting this kind of undesired behavior into my son's own experience, I asked him to try and see it through his heart.*
My son and I began a conversation about the different ways we could feel compassion for the boys. I explained that sometimes the things we see as "bad" could actually be good for us. You see, if things were always good how would we be pushed to learn and grow? It is the "icky" feeling that warns us and wakes us up. We "highlighted" the good that comes from positive words and actions, therefore, attracting more of that kind of energy and experience into his life. We discussed how good he feels when he lifts others up. We discussed how it would feel to be on the receiving end of his positive words and actions. We both felt really good about what we concluded together. We gave thanks to God for the experience presented to my son and for what we learned from it.
"We can increase the frequency of guiding coincidences by uplifting every person that comes into our lives. Care must be taken not to lose our inner connection in romantic relationships. Uplifting others is especially effective in groups where each member can feel energy of all the others. With children it is extremely important for their early security and growth. By seeing the beauty in every face, we lift others into their wisest self, and increase the chances of hearing a synchronistic message."
--The Celestine Prophecy: Insight Number 8, James Redfield
The Law of Attraction is Constant
By definition the Law of Attraction means like attracts like. It doesn't discriminate and decide what is best for us. It gives us exactly what we are "putting out there." The unintentional thinking and talking we do everyday when we are frustrated, sad, worried, angry, annoyed or stressed has everything to do with attracting more of what we DO NOT like into our life experience. We all have a tendency do this. One conversation doesn't change the world or my son. Daily practice is a must.
There is great pleasure to discover behind daily purposeful, loving and positive thinking. We have the power to direct the Flow of Energy we desire.
By Maria L Flynn

The Law of Attraction Love Guidelines

Many people have heard about the Law of Attraction, and how it can be used to attain things such as love, money, and changing aspects of your life. Using the Law of Attraction for love is kind of like a mind set change, meaning that in order for it to work you have to really understand and believe in it. If you have been desiring love but have never had it, it is probably a psychological issue that is holding you back. You have to realize that there is a someone for everyone, but you must attune yourself to finding that person.
You can use the principle of the Law of Attraction of relationships to do this, and it is almost like teaching yourself how to walk again. There are new concepts that you must accept and believe in. You must first gain control over your mind and thoughts. If you aren't a master of your own mind, then it will be hard to find love. No one wants to be intimate with someone who can't even control their thoughts. You can do this by simply making a commitment to silence, every day. It will be hard at first, but if your conscious mind decides something, there's really no way to stop it.
Next, you need to watch out for opportunities. You must be completely in the moment, meaning not lost in thought or daydreaming, in order to see the opportunities that are available to you. There is always only one choice that leads to happiness, and you only need to be aware of it to see it. Finally, you want to work on learning how to give love. If you can give people love, meaning you can create happiness and joy wherever you are, then it will attract that into your life. People are instinctively drawn towards happiness and love like moths to a flame. Once you meet that special person, you will know it. Don't let fear get in your way of doing anything, especially something so beneficial as finding someone you are compatible with. Remember to practice silence, which will allow you to focus your attention so accurately that whatever you point it at will turn to gold.

By Schuyler Davis

Law of Attraction - How To Attract A Relationship

Law of attraction works for attracting relationships as well as material things. I'm talking about girlfriends, boyfriends or even a spouse. We all want love and it's so frustrating when we're alone by ourselves especially during Valentine's day or Christmas. Seeing couples enjoying themselves further increases the pain. Here is how law of attraction can help you to attract a relationship.


The law of attraction requires 3 things in order for it to work:


- Believe without a doubt that your desire will manifest


- Giving off positive vibrations all day


- Acting as though you already have what you desire


Based on these 3 rules you can use the law of attraction to attract a relationship. Here are 5 steps which you can follow:


1. When you wake up, think about your ideal boyfriend or girlfriend. If there is someone who you've got a crush on, think about that person. Now paint a picture in your mind that they are smiling at you and holding your hand. See them actually enjoy spending time with you.


When you picture this in your mind, feel it actually happening now. You should be acting out this dream and believe it's happening this instance. This should get you off to a good start in the morning.


2. When you go out of the house or on the bus to work, expect to see your ideal partner. Imagine meeting them on the way to work or when you go shopping. Say to yourself that you have a strong hunch you'll meet them today.


3. In restaurants or in social gatherings, expect to see your partner there. Get ready for what to say when you meet them. All this time, imagine that they would be very happy to see you. See the both of you laughing and lightly touching each others' arms and shoulders in a friendly manner.


4. Act as though you are already going out with the person. You can do this when you go to the cinema, shopping or waiting in a queue. Live out your desire now. Imagine you are sitting next to them. Talking to them and sharing jokes. Remember, the emotion you feel when you act out this desire should be very strong. You should be very happy and actually make yourself believe it's already happening.


5. Create the opportunity to actually go and see the person. When you meet them, you should feel as though you're already lovers. Talk to them and at all times treat them like you would your lover (without the intimate touches of course).


What you are doing is basically applying the law of attraction strongly to attract your relationship. By doing the above 5 steps you are meeting all the 3 rules which require the law of attraction to work. Remember that belief and your emotions are very important. You can tell if you're doing the right thing by noticing the mood you're in. If you're genuinely happy, then you're applying the law of attraction correctly.


Using this Universal Law not only requires practice, it requires a change in your lifestyle as it is not normal for humans to be consistently positive. You can get more information below on this topic. What you need to do now is to understand why your desires haven't manifested yet and then take the appropriate actions and properly apply the law of attraction.

Alan Cheng

Attract a Mate Using The Law of Attraction

Most times, the past relationships are so easy to complain about. We seem to know EXACTLY what we didn't like about that person. They were too this...they were too that. Why do I always attract this kind of relationships or dating experiences? Or maybe you don't attract ANYONE and can't understand why. It's probably because you keep putting out in the universe that you don't think that you can attract anyone.
In order too attract a man or to attract a woman using the laws of attraction, it's important to realize WHY you attract the mates that you do. The vibes you're putting out in the universe is what the Laws of Attraction are going to bring back to you!
Whatever you put your attention on is what you're going to attract. So, if you are always putting your attention on how the mates you choose aren't worth @#%&, then you're going to keep attracting mates that aren't worth @#%&. Believe me, I know this is easier said than done. Like anything else, this takes practice.
To manifest your ideal mate, use the bad experiences you had to get some clarity about the things you want in a mate. Write down all the bad attributes of that person, then right beside it, write down the opposite attribute. Maybe they were a liar, for example. Beside that, write down that you want someone who is honest. Make sure that you write something positive for all the bad attributes you can think of.
Now, you have a positive list to concentrate on. You have clarity. You know exactly what you want and you can concentrate on the positive. The more keep your attention on these positive traits, the more likely these traits are going to manifest themselves in your next date or relationship. With practice, your vibes will change and the Law of Attraction will bring to you exactly what you want!

by Nailah Joynerv

Marriage and the Law of Attraction

What do you do when you and your spouse don't agree? Maybe one of you applies the Law of Attraction and your significant other could not care less. What happens when you feel you're not on the same wave length? Will this affect obtaining what you want out of life? Are you attracting your spouse's disagreement with what you want?
Don't forget that whatever is in your life, you have attracted it to yourself with your thoughts and your feelings. If your spouse is not agreeing with your thoughts, you have attracted this. So how do you change it? By doing exactly what you did to attract the disagreement, except change your focus to what you do want.
Your spouse is using the Law of Attraction even if he/she doesn't know it. They are attracting into their life (just like you are) whatever they put the most focus on. So, on some level they wanted you to apply the Law of Attraction because that is what they feel through their own perception.
You don't want to force your spouse to apply the Law of Attraction intentionally. They already are using it, they just don't know it.
You can help your spouse along by your visualizations. You can visualize your spouse enjoying life with you. You can envision your spouse understanding the Law of Attraction. You can envision that you are agreeing joyously with each other. And then…let it go.
The Universe will attract to you what you are visualizing and this will happen if your spouse is aligned with your desire. He may start to become interested in the LOA or he may ask a question or two. When this happens treat him like you'd want to be treated. Give him the space he may need to figure it out for himself.
And if he doesn't come into alignment with your desire, perhaps he is focusing on creating a world that is his own. Accept that and allow the differences and love him anyway. Isn't that what you would want? By allowing, you are creating your world, he is creating his world, and the Universe will blend the two worlds just as it should. You don't have to have the same desires in order to live a wonderful joyous life. Just make sure that once you have visualized your joyous life together, to let it go. It may include the LOA for him or not, but what it will do is give you a life of joy together in the Law of Attraction.
by Beth and Lee McCain

Law of Attraction for Love - 4 Steps to Get Love and The Law of Attraction

We all know that by means of the Law of Attraction the strongest feelings that may bring your needs to you might be love and being grateful. These feelings needs to be on a regular basis occurrence. Sure, they may enable you to with attaining what you want in life. But they're very helpful to every area of your life and others can benefit to you and your love ones.
Be open minded
Be open and specific yourself. By letting the universe legal guidelines do its job. By permitting yourself to be open to receive love, you should have the chance to draw love into your life. The Law of Attraction works perfectly for love. Love others and you will have a better understanding of the kind of relationship it's you want. 'Like attracts like', and this idea will guide you to your desired end goal.
What kind of love you are searching for?
Be clear on the precise qualities, experiences and feelings you want. You might find yourself with somebody you aren't suitable with in the event you don't. ask yourself, what it I'm exactly looking for is. Elucidating exactly what you're searching for will help the Law of Attraction love.
Share your love
Take your vital different and create some random acts of kindness and love for everyone. There are a lot of individuals who feel unloved, and by showing your love and gratitude by way of the notion that every human being deserves love, this act of kindness will cross the torch to the one receiving the love.
Celebrate the love
Show the Universe your gratitude by giving again ultimately through love.
As a substitute of just recognizing one day to have a good time love, have a good time the general love of mankind every day. Assist somebody with their groceries. Show the Universe that you are giving again to the world. The act could appear small, nevertheless it isn't. There are no small acts of love as far as the Universe is concerned.
Cross on the love and gratitude by way of the Law of Attraction, and just wait and see what attracts again to you.

By Raymond Teh

Releasing Negative Beliefs - What Does That Really Mean?

When engaging in self-improvement or energy work or studying the Law of Attraction, we're often told that we have to release our negative and limiting beliefs. Heck, I talk about it a lot myself on this site. But what exactly do we mean my "releasing negative beliefs"?
At our core, we are pure, positive energy, vibrating at a very high frequency. Everything outside of us is also energy, including our thoughts. A belief is just a thought that we've activated, that we've given a lot of attention and focus to over time; so its vibration is quite strong. Negative beliefs are thoughts which carry a much lower frequency than the one that our inner being is vibrating at. This creates a vibrational discord, and it doesn't feel good.
Now, when you carry these lower frequencies with you, they can cause you to react to situations in ways that don't serve you. You react from a place of fear, you limit yourself, you lash out at people without meaning to; you generally don't allow yourself to be who you really are. And you don't feel all that great about it. "Why do I always do that? Why did I say that?" You wish you could behave differently in the moment, but something - a negative belief - is causing you stay stuck in a pattern. So, obviously, it's incredibly beneficial to release that limiting belief. But how?
There are many methods that allow you to release limiting beliefs, from psychotherapy, which works on a purely mind-based level, to Shamanic healing, which can be done on a purely energetic level. In my experience, most of our limiting beliefs are anchored in our mind, so for the purposes of this article, I'm going to focus on using mind-based methods to achieve energetic shifts.
Beliefs can be formed in two ways: We can pick up the vibration from our environment, or our mind can form a belief based on an event.
Every time someone thinks a thought, it is activated. There is a vibration. This vibration doesn't go away simply because that person stops thinking it. It can be picked up by someone else who taps into that thought's frequency. Now, let's say that a particular thought has been activated my many, many people - a whole community, culture, country or even the whole world. That vibration would be quite strong. A new born baby, having just come into the physical word and eager to begin translating energy through its physical senses could then easily begin to pick up on these strong vibrations. This is why you can carry cultural beliefs or global beliefs within you, even if your particular family didn't teach them to you.
You can also form a belief based on an event. A lot of these beliefs are also formed in our childhood and are, more often than not, the result of a complete misunderstanding. A child will interpret events through a very limited filter. They try to put things into context, but lack any kind of perspective to do so effectively. So, for example, if a little boy sees his parents arguing, he may well come to the conclusion that the parents are fighting because of something he did wrong. This singular moment can cause the boy to form the belief that he is bad in some way. Later in life, this can cause the man that boy has become to feel unworthy or like a failure, no matter what he does.
The main point here is that often our beliefs are formed in seemingly minor and quite innocent ways, especially from our adult perspective. That fight was quite traumatic for the little boy, but as a man, he would look back on his parents' argument and think nothing of it. Everyone argues, right? It's no big deal. And he may never connect his feelings of unworthiness to that seemingly harmless moment.
In order to release a negative belief, it can be quite helpful to figure out at what moment it was formed. It is not absolutely necessary, but if you can figure out where it came from, the release is so much easier. Be aware, though, that you're probably not looking for some huge, traumatic event. It could've been a simple argument, a moment of disappointment, some harsh word that caused the child you used to be to draw a conclusion about themselves or others.
But what if you can't figure out where the belief came from, or you're trying to release a belief you picked up vibrationally? In either case, the following still holds true:

Releasing a Belief = Changing your Perspective

Identify what it is that you believe now. Don't expect that belief to be logical, it will often not be. Then, find a way to shift your perspective on that belief. In other words, you have to find a way to actually justify the new belief to yourself. That new, more positive belief has to make sense to you. This is why you can't simply look in the mirror and chant "I am worthy. I am worthy." You could, over a great deal of time, shift your energy a bit with this method, but unless you're willing to spend hours and hours every day chanting to yourself, there are much easier ways.
If you can identify where the belief came from, an incident from your childhood, for example, one method which works is to allow the child which experienced that incident to process that event by going up the emotional scale on it. Don't try to just analyze the event as an adult. The child who experienced it won't care that everyone fights, and to him, it IS a big deal. It's scary when adults fight.
You can get some help. Find a good therapist, coach, EFT practitioner or shaman to assist you with identifying and releasing the limiting beliefs you have. Often, figuring out what limiting beliefs you hold is the hard part. A good practitioner can help you find those beliefs and release them much faster than you could on your own.
In any case, when you do finally "release" the negative frequency, when you shift your perspective and accept the new belief, you will feel a rush of energy. This is the point when people often start to cry or breathe more heavily. What you are feeling is your vibration on that subject rising. By releasing that lower frequency, you're allowing your vibration to return to its natural, high state. The bigger the sensation, the greater that energetic shift was. It feels amazing.
If you've released a particularly strong vibration, something that was affecting a large part of your life, be prepared for some "aftershocks." You might well experience little mini-releases of related vibrations. What's happening is that the belief you shifted was connected to a lot of other vibrations, and releasing it has caused a kind of domino effect. When you take down the big one, all the rest will fall one by one. You will also notice that your thoughts and behaviors will change over the coming days, weeks and months. You will behave differently - your reactions are now based on your new belief. Pay attention to this and react as deliberately as you can. Try to cement that new belief in place. Hold your new vibration intentionally. This is particularly important if the people around you have always reinforced the old belief. You can be affected by their vibration if you don't stabilize yours.
As you experience the identification and release of negative beliefs and the after effects of doing so more and more, it'll become easier and easier to do so. Don't be surprised if the energetic shifts you experience each time become less and less spectacular. As you have less lower frequencies to release, and the ones you have left aren't really that low, the shifts you experience may seem a bit anti-climatic. You might even miss the amazing feeling of releasing some really huge, ugly belief structure. But don't worry. When you get to this point, you will generally feel so good and be in such a great mood, that this disappointment will be short lived.
By Melody Fletcher

Synchronicity, A Loving Part of Your Internal Guidance System

Have you ever wondered why sometimes things happen that are out of the blue and very important to you? Like when you remember an old friend who you haven't thought of in over a year and then that friend contacts you for no apparent reason? Or when you wake up and look at the clock at 3:33 a.m. for several nights? Or when you just know the outcome of a game and you are correct?
These unusual happenings are called synchronicities. They are an important aspect of our lives and once learned about and noticed, they can happen frequently as they gently guide us along our Divine Paths. When appreciated, these events multiply and make life so much fun.
In his book, The Divine Matrix, Gregg Braden writes, "The Divine Matrix is the web that makes the fabric of the universe. Of the many ways we could define the Divine Matrix, perhaps the simplest is to think of it as being three basic things: (1) the container for the universe to exist within; (2) the bridge between our inner and outer worlds; and (3) the mirror that reflects our everyday thoughts, feelings, emotions and beliefs."
This matrix that connects all things is important to grasp for understanding the principle of synchronicity. It is as a result of our interconnectedness with each other and the Universe that synchronistic events can occur.
In Frank Joseph's book, Synchronicity & You, he provides a description of different types of meaningful coincidences. His book discusses the incidence of synchronicity with the following:
1. INANIMATE OBJECTS
2. NUMBERS
3. ENVIRONMENTAL AND ANIMAL OSTENTA [Signs]
4. PREMONITION
5. DREAMS (PRECOGNITIVE AND SHARED)
6. TELEPATHY
7. ENIGMAS
8. ORIGINS
9. PARALLEL LIVES
10. LIFE IMITATES ART
11. WARNINGS
12. DEATH
13. RESCUE
14. REINCARNATION
15. GUIDANCE
16. MOIRA [Higher Calling]
17. TRANSFORMATIONAL EXPERIENCES
I look at synchronicity as a pat on the back from the Universe, as an atta-boy or good-job from my angels and spirit guides. It keeps me in tune with my Inner Being and reflects my daily intentions of joy and peace. When I am feeling low in energy and a synchronicity comes my way I feel loving support and my energy is bolstered immediately.
This comes from having a generally positive outlook on life. I am aware of the Universal Law of Attraction which states that like attracts like so when I am feeling disharmonious I know to ask for help from my guides to shift my energy so that I do not attract what I do not want. It has taken many years to undo the false belief system I inherited as a small child, and now I feel truly blessed and happy each day. If you desire to improve your life and live synchronistically then read on. The door is open to you and everyone.
If you want to change your life, to improve it, to feel happier and healthier every day, then the first step is to recognize that you are seeking something greater in your life. The second step is to make a commitment to follow through on doing something about it. This is your life and also your choice, nobody else can make your life different, only you can. Change in your life will begin with change from within.
How do you increase synchronicity in your life? Here are a few ideas to get you started. Also, remember that each person's path is unique so do not compare yourself to anyone else. Rather, listen to your inner voice to guide you on your life path.
1. Begin seeking spiritual instruction. It is not important if it is through a video, book, workshop, etc. What is important is that you make the decision to begin and you take action. The more you learn the more you will feel your connection to the Divine.
2. Meditate daily. This will quiet your mind and open the space for synchronicity in your life.
3. Treat yourself with loving kindness and listening to your body. Pamper yourself by taking a long bath and add cleansing mineral salts to reduce body tension. Look in the mirror and say, "I love you" to yourself several times a day or more if it feels difficult. Also, when you need to rest then take a break from your routine. Even 5 minutes spent lying down can be helpful.
4. Set a loving intention in the morning when you wake up. Tell yourself something extremely positive, something that makes you feel warm and giggly inside. You might start with saying, "I intend to be loving to myself and others today." Or you might have a specific goal to address, like, "I intend to be confident and smart on my interview."
5. Pray before you to go sleep at night. Include at least one thing that you are thankful for.
6. Eat healthy foods and drink lots of water. This will help to heal your body and bring it into alignment with your spiritual intentions.
7. Exercise regularly. This will also help your body to sustain the higher frequency you intend to become.
8. Laugh, sing, play and dance every day. This not only releases feel-good hormones in your body, it also brings you closer to the Divine Source Energy that you wish to attract more of in your life.
9. Free yourself from addictions in any form. The ego part of your mind distracts you with addictions and your focus and ability to draw synchronicity will multiply once you release them.
10. Ask for help. If you want to make changes and you feel that you are unable then you can consider seeing a therapist who will help you to transform.
If you are still a little confused about what exactly is synchronicity then here is an example:
Two months ago I was watching my son in his taekwondo class when I got an e-mail from my cousin in Florida. He said that he was at the Lexus dealership in Palm Beach, FL and noticed that they had a display case for selling jewelry. He suggested that I look into selling Ishvara Jewelry at my local Lexus dealership. I thought it was a good idea and left it at that.
Then I was driving down a 45 mph road at dusk when I noticed up ahead that there were dark shapes in the middle of the road and cars were stopped with their hazard lights on. I slowed down and saw a man picking up a large, long-haired black dog who was hit by a car and obviously injured very badly. I intuitively felt that the dog had already passed to the light and felt sadness because it brought back a childhood memory of when my sweet dog, Ruffy, was hit by a car in front of our home and died on the way to the emergency vet. As tears rolled down my cheeks I turned on the radio for a distraction. When I listened to the lyrics of the song that was playing I realized that it was referring to the old south spiritual song that I'm sure most people have heard, Amazing Grace. In an instant my tears turned to joy as I recognized the synchronicity of the song and it's relevance in my life.
I felt as if I were on cloud 9 when I got home and started cooking dinner. Then I was mega-shocked when the phone rang and it was the local Lexus dealership calling about a promotion! I felt so grateful for the synchronicity and thanked my spirit guides immensely.

By Beth Ambard