Law of attraction works for attracting relationships as well as material things. I'm talking about girlfriends, boyfriends or even a spouse. We all want love and it's so frustrating when we're alone by ourselves especially during Valentine's day or Christmas. Seeing couples enjoying themselves further increases the pain. Here is how law of attraction can help you to attract a relationship.
The law of attraction requires 3 things in order for it to work:
- Believe without a doubt that your desire will manifest
- Giving off positive vibrations all day
- Acting as though you already have what you desire
Based on these 3 rules you can use the law of attraction to attract a relationship. Here are 5 steps which you can follow:
1. When you wake up, think about your ideal boyfriend or girlfriend. If there is someone who you've got a crush on, think about that person. Now paint a picture in your mind that they are smiling at you and holding your hand. See them actually enjoy spending time with you.
When you picture this in your mind, feel it actually happening now. You should be acting out this dream and believe it's happening this instance. This should get you off to a good start in the morning.
2. When you go out of the house or on the bus to work, expect to see your ideal partner. Imagine meeting them on the way to work or when you go shopping. Say to yourself that you have a strong hunch you'll meet them today.
3. In restaurants or in social gatherings, expect to see your partner there. Get ready for what to say when you meet them. All this time, imagine that they would be very happy to see you. See the both of you laughing and lightly touching each others' arms and shoulders in a friendly manner.
4. Act as though you are already going out with the person. You can do this when you go to the cinema, shopping or waiting in a queue. Live out your desire now. Imagine you are sitting next to them. Talking to them and sharing jokes. Remember, the emotion you feel when you act out this desire should be very strong. You should be very happy and actually make yourself believe it's already happening.
5. Create the opportunity to actually go and see the person. When you meet them, you should feel as though you're already lovers. Talk to them and at all times treat them like you would your lover (without the intimate touches of course).
What you are doing is basically applying the law of attraction strongly to attract your relationship. By doing the above 5 steps you are meeting all the 3 rules which require the law of attraction to work. Remember that belief and your emotions are very important. You can tell if you're doing the right thing by noticing the mood you're in. If you're genuinely happy, then you're applying the law of attraction correctly.
Using this Universal Law not only requires practice, it requires a change in your lifestyle as it is not normal for humans to be consistently positive. You can get more information below on this topic. What you need to do now is to understand why your desires haven't manifested yet and then take the appropriate actions and properly apply the law of attraction.
Alan Cheng
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Marriage and the Law of Attraction
What do you do when you and your spouse don't agree? Maybe one of you applies the Law of Attraction and your significant other could not care less. What happens when you feel you're not on the same wave length? Will this affect obtaining what you want out of life? Are you attracting your spouse's disagreement with what you want?
Don't forget that whatever is in your life, you have attracted it to yourself with your thoughts and your feelings. If your spouse is not agreeing with your thoughts, you have attracted this. So how do you change it? By doing exactly what you did to attract the disagreement, except change your focus to what you do want.
Your spouse is using the Law of Attraction even if he/she doesn't know it. They are attracting into their life (just like you are) whatever they put the most focus on. So, on some level they wanted you to apply the Law of Attraction because that is what they feel through their own perception.
You don't want to force your spouse to apply the Law of Attraction intentionally. They already are using it, they just don't know it.
You can help your spouse along by your visualizations. You can visualize your spouse enjoying life with you. You can envision your spouse understanding the Law of Attraction. You can envision that you are agreeing joyously with each other. And then…let it go.
The Universe will attract to you what you are visualizing and this will happen if your spouse is aligned with your desire. He may start to become interested in the LOA or he may ask a question or two. When this happens treat him like you'd want to be treated. Give him the space he may need to figure it out for himself.
And if he doesn't come into alignment with your desire, perhaps he is focusing on creating a world that is his own. Accept that and allow the differences and love him anyway. Isn't that what you would want? By allowing, you are creating your world, he is creating his world, and the Universe will blend the two worlds just as it should. You don't have to have the same desires in order to live a wonderful joyous life. Just make sure that once you have visualized your joyous life together, to let it go. It may include the LOA for him or not, but what it will do is give you a life of joy together in the Law of Attraction.
by Beth and Lee McCain
Don't forget that whatever is in your life, you have attracted it to yourself with your thoughts and your feelings. If your spouse is not agreeing with your thoughts, you have attracted this. So how do you change it? By doing exactly what you did to attract the disagreement, except change your focus to what you do want.
Your spouse is using the Law of Attraction even if he/she doesn't know it. They are attracting into their life (just like you are) whatever they put the most focus on. So, on some level they wanted you to apply the Law of Attraction because that is what they feel through their own perception.
You don't want to force your spouse to apply the Law of Attraction intentionally. They already are using it, they just don't know it.
You can help your spouse along by your visualizations. You can visualize your spouse enjoying life with you. You can envision your spouse understanding the Law of Attraction. You can envision that you are agreeing joyously with each other. And then…let it go.
The Universe will attract to you what you are visualizing and this will happen if your spouse is aligned with your desire. He may start to become interested in the LOA or he may ask a question or two. When this happens treat him like you'd want to be treated. Give him the space he may need to figure it out for himself.
And if he doesn't come into alignment with your desire, perhaps he is focusing on creating a world that is his own. Accept that and allow the differences and love him anyway. Isn't that what you would want? By allowing, you are creating your world, he is creating his world, and the Universe will blend the two worlds just as it should. You don't have to have the same desires in order to live a wonderful joyous life. Just make sure that once you have visualized your joyous life together, to let it go. It may include the LOA for him or not, but what it will do is give you a life of joy together in the Law of Attraction.
by Beth and Lee McCain
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